“The snow falls—each flake in its place.” – Yuan Mei
“The snow falls—each flake in its place.”
This line can be read as a quiet koan: things unfold as they must. No striving, no correcting—just each moment being as it is.
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In the Plum Village tradition of Zen Buddhism, the practice of returning to the breath is both foundational and transformative. Thich Nhat Hanh often emphasized the quality of this return, suggesting that how you come back to the present moment is just as important as the act itself. Below are insights and commentaries on this practice:
1. The Quality of the Return
Thich Nhat Hanh taught that the return to the breath should be gentle, nonjudgmental, and infused with kindness. When you notice you’ve been carried away by thoughts or grasping, it’s essential to avoid frustration or self-criticism. Instead, recognize the act of noticing as a moment of mindfulness itself—a bell of awareness.
• Gentleness: Return to your breath as if greeting an old friend. This cultivates a sense of ease and trust in yourself.
• Nonjudgmental Awareness: Simply acknowledge, “Ah, I’ve been distracted,” without labeling it as good or bad.
• Kindness: Smile inwardly to your distraction, viewing it as an opportunity to practice.
Thich Nhat Hanh once said:
“The miracle is not that you walk on water, but that you walk on the Earth. Each mindful breath is a step toward freedom.”
By prioritizing gentleness in your return, you make the act itself a moment of liberation.
2. Awareness of the Body
Thich Nhat Hanh highlighted the body as a refuge. When returning to the breath, allow awareness to embrace your whole body. Use the breath as a bridge to come back to the present moment not only mentally but also physically.
• Reconnect with Sensations: Feel the rise and fall of your belly, the contact of your feet with the ground, or the warmth of your hands.
• Relaxation as a Gateway: Upon returning, let your out-breath carry relaxation throughout your body. Thich Nhat Hanh offered this gatha to embody this process:
Breathing in, I know I am breathing in.
Breathing out, I know I am breathing out.
Breathing in, I calm my body.
Breathing out, I smile.
This practice anchors you in the here and now, offering a sense of embodied presence.
3. The Intention Behind the Practice
Setting an intention for this practice involves cultivating curiosity and compassion rather than striving for perfection or quick solutions. It also invites a recognition of the habitual nature of distraction without succumbing to the “gaining idea” of trying to achieve a specific state.
• Curiosity: Be interested in the process of returning itself. Ask, “What is happening now as I return?”
• Compassion: Acknowledge that distraction is part of being human. Treat it as a friend reminding you to practice mindfulness.
Brother Phap Hai, a senior Plum Village teacher, has written about approaching mindfulness as a “dance” rather than a rigid discipline. He encourages practitioners to “play with returning,” allowing lightness to guide their intention.
4. Commentary on Discomfort
When the inclination arises to avoid discomfort, the breath can become a compassionate container for holding what is difficult. Thich Nhat Hanh offered the image of a mother holding a crying baby: your in-breath and out-breath are the mother, and your discomfort is the baby. The quality of your return involves embracing discomfort with tenderness and without the need to fix it.
• Softening Resistance: On your in-breath, silently say, “It’s okay to feel this.” On your out-breath, release any tension.
• Staying Present: The return is not an escape from discomfort but a turning toward it with awareness.
5. Practical Exercises
• Anchor in Gratitude: As you return to the breath, silently express gratitude for this moment of mindfulness.
“Thank you, breath, for bringing me back.”
• Use Gathas: Recite simple phrases to support the quality of your return:
Breathing in, I return to my true home.
Breathing out, I smile with my whole being.
6. Summary of What’s Important
1. Gentleness: Make your return a celebration, not a task.
2. Embodiment: Use the breath to anchor yourself in the body.
3. Curiosity: Approach the process with an open and inquisitive mind.
4. Compassion: Treat distractions as opportunities for practice, not failures.
5. Consistency: Let the act of returning become a source of joy and renewal.
As Thich Nhat Hanh reminded us:
“Each breath is a chance to start anew.”
The quality of your return, imbued with mindfulness and loving presence, transforms this simple act into a profound spiritual practice.
'No Mud, No Lotus' - Page 50
When you look at a tree in a storm, if you focus your attention on the top of the tree, you’ll see the leaves and branches blowing wildly in the wind, and the tree will look so vulnerable, as though it could be broken at any time. But when you direct your attention down to the trunk of the tree, there is not so much movement. You see the stability of the tree, and you see that the tree is deeply rooted in the soil and can with stand the storm. When we experience a strong emotion, the mind is agitated like the top of the tree. We have to bring our mind down to the trunk, to the abdomen, and focus all our attention on the rise and fall of the abdomen.
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Thich Nhat Hanh frequently offers metaphors to illustrate how the breath can serve as a refuge in the midst of overwhelming emotions. One of the most well-known instances of this metaphor is found in his book Peace Is Every Step, where he describes the breath as an anchor that helps us remain grounded, especially when we feel emotionally swept away. He also discusses similar ideas in The Art of Living and No Mud, No Lotus. In these works, Hanh emphasizes the importance of mindful breathing to stay connected to the present moment and to cultivate inner calm.
The metaphor you mention, comparing emotions to the violent swaying of branches while the trunk remains steady, reflects Thich Nhat Hanh's teaching that mindful breathing helps us return to our core stability, much like the rooted trunk of a tree. The storm of emotions is natural and inevitable, but the breath is our refuge, allowing us to ride through turbulent experiences without being overwhelmed by them.
Bringing in Guanyin, the bodhisattva of compassion, offers a deepened perspective on this metaphor. Guanyin embodies both compassion and the power of deep listening. Her practice involves truly hearing and responding to the cries of the world. If we apply Guanyin's insight to Thich Nhat Hanh's metaphor, we can view our breath as not only a source of grounding but also an expression of self-compassion. By returning to our breath, we are, in essence, practicing deep listening to ourselves—tuning into our emotions without judgment or resistance. Just as Guanyin listens with boundless compassion, we too can listen to our inner storm with kindness, allowing the breath to calm and soothe, much like her presence would comfort those in distress.
This insight encourages a dual process: using the breath to stay rooted, and applying the spirit of compassionate listening to our inner emotional life, just as Guanyin would listen to the suffering of others. It is both a practical and compassionate approach to working with strong emotions.
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