It's Hard Work Being a Control Freak
We donâ™t need to control the world. We donâ™t need to defend ourselves against it.
We donâ™t need to preserve anything. We only need to be hereâ"totally, completely,
freelyâ"responding to the actual occasion.
â"Steve Hagen, from Buddhism: Itâ™s Not What You Think (HarperSanFrancisco)